“- you are not even grateful, are you? -grateful? For the worst fucking experience of my life? -you hang on to your pain like it means something, like it's worth something. well, let me tell you, it's not worth shit. let it go. infinite possibilities and all you can do is whine. -well, what am I suppose to do? -what do you think? you can do anything, you lucky bastard. you’re alive! what’s a little pain compared to that? -it can't be so simple.” six feet under, s4e12