should you give grace to someone who doesn't pick up the phone or even send the automatic text to say I'll call you back, or reply to texts but for some reason adds you to their birthday partiful asking for $30 dollars…then when you see it you try to speak to them again and they still don't respond…and then when they don't respond to reach out on Instagram…and they still don't respond, and then when you finally say take me off this list they gaslight you